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Ten Signs You Are Ready for Marriage: a guest post by Jade Langton

10 Signs You Are Ready for Marriage

Marriage is something that should be taken very seriously. Therefore, it is crucial to know whether you are ready for it or not. Read a comprehensive article on this topic; we’ve put together factual information for you.

Whether you have been with your partner for several months or years, marriage is undoubtedly a huge deal! Apart from all the excitement surrounding your engagement, you may wonder whether you see signs that you are ready for marriage. However, experts suggest that being ready for your marriage may mean different things for different individuals. For instance, you may be looking for same day pay day loans to buy a car, while your partner may want to opt for a personal loan. Or you might have different political views. It doesn’t really matter, because you need to learn how to communicate.

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Signs That You Are Ready for Marriage

Of course, no one can tell what the ‘best time is to get married’. However, some signs may suggest that you are ready to talk about marriage. Some of them include:

1. You Understand Why You Want to Get Married

Yes, it feels nice to see all the pictures of white dresses, tuxedos, and the air of love and marriage. However, you need to ask yourself – is this what you are really looking for? Do you just want to get married for the sake of it, or do you love your partner and wish to spend your life with them? Asking yourself the hard questions will truly help you decide whether you are ready to marry your partner or not.

2. You Share Similar Values

Normally, shared values bring couples closer to one another and help sustain the relationship over the years. However, what happens when you do not share similar values? As long as you respect and support the views of one another, it is fine. For instance, your partner may spend their time volunteering at a nursing home and wants to start a non-profit organization for the same. Even if you are unable to involve yourself in their dream, you admire their commitment.

3. You’re Both Mature Enough

As aforementioned, no one can predict what the best time is to get married. While there is no perfect age, studies have concluded that the average age of marriage is 33 years old. However, only you can decide what is right for you.

It is a known fact that people mature at different ages. Some signs of maturity include being willing and able to make future plans with your partner, having a handle on your life goals, and trusting and knowing yourself and the relationship with your partner.

4. You Can Talk About Awkward Things

Communication is a key component of any good relationship. If you and your partner can talk about topics that will serve you both well in marriage, it means that you are ready to take the relationship to the next level.

Regarding marriage, both partners need to learn to talk about everything related to odd topics like money, credit card balance, et cetera. Both partners need to talk about everything and be open to one another.

5. You Take Care of Yourself and One Another

One of the most important signs that you are ready to marry your partner is that you can support yourself. While marriage means relying on each other, neither partner should fully rely on the other person without taking care of their individual selves first.

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Support does not only have to be financial; it also needs to be spiritual and emotional. For example, experts say that support needs to be such that when one partner becomes ill, the other can take over specific roles and keep things moving.

6. You Are Setting Realistic Expectations

None of us are perfect; if you have been in a relationship with your now-spouse before the marriage, you will be aware of this. However, before you walk down the aisle, you need to understand that along with happy times, there will be difficult periods as well. Then, there will be moments when your partner exceeds your expectations, and then when they disappoint you.

Experts suggest that if you are looking for a happy marriage, you need to remove these lingering doubts and know that both partners will make trade-offs in taking these characteristics and features.

7. You Are Capable of Resolving Conflicts Together

Glossing over and hoping that they will disappear will not solve your problems. Both partners must work together to help solve a common problem or help one another out. Do not get married just because you think that it will help you solve your problem. It is recommended that you solve the problems first. If you and your partner are unable to work the issues out, you will not be able to communicate with one another effectively.

8. You Are On The Same Page About Important Life Decisions

It is vital that you have discussions about important things that you both want in the future and how you will achieve them. It is pretty common for even partners in a dream marriage to have different goals.

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For instance, one partner may dream about fixing the old farmhouse and having a big family, while the other envisions traveling around the world as a digital and nomadic couple. These decisions often are the deal-breakers; it is crucial to know the future your partner is looking for and whether you are capable or compatible of doing so, and vice versa.

9. You Are Handling Finances As A Couple

Most soon-to-be couples have probably dealt with money-related questions like who is paying for dinner, budgeting a romantic getaway, et cetera. However, money matters tend to become more complicated after marriage. Therefore, it is essential to talk about how you and your partner will handle financial details when you are married. You need to talk about many aspects of money, like having separate bank accounts (or not), monthly savings, spending limitations, and more.

10. You Are Accepting Conflicts Constructively

Of course, fights tend to happen even to the best couples. Before marriage, you need to reflect on yourself – are you the attacker or the avoidant? Do you get disappointed after an argument, or do you confront it? These are essential realizations that you need to understand before tying the knot. The best marriage advice is to accept the conflict with open arms and understand its reason.

Final Thoughts

Experts suggest that a marriage definition is putting aside individual preferences for the sake of the relationship. While what you and your partner consider important may differ from another couple, the keynote here is to ensure that you and your partner are on the same page. Therefore, it is crucial that you are happy with one another on the ground level.

Would you add anything? Let us know in the comments!

Such great suggestions on deciding if you’re ready for such a big step!

Thank you, Jade, for this useful article. ♥♥♥

Guest Blogger Bio

Jade Langton is a finance analyst and has been involved in many successful business projects with a range of companies throughout the country. She started writing 3 years ago and enjoys researching, discussing, and writing on the topics of finances, budgeting, money advice, lifestyle and wellness. Jade loves to spend time with her family and has a lot of hobbies, including hiking, riding a bike, cooking, and traveling.

Thanks again! We hope to see you back on ILRB sometime. 

As always, happy reading, everyone! Have a great rest of your week!

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